What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Blacker by Damon Young EPUB
A Finalist for the NAACP Image Award
Longlisted for the PEN/Diamonstein-Spielvogel Award for the Art of the Essay
An NPR Best Book of the Year
A Washington Independent Review of Books Favorite of the Year
From the cofounder of VerySmartBrothas.com and one of the most read writers on race and culture at work today, a provocative and humorous memoir-in-essays that explores the ever-shifting definitions of what it means to be black (and male) in America.
For Damon Young, existing while black is an extreme sport. The act of possessing black skin while searching for space to breathe in America is enough to induce a ceaseless state of angst where questions such as â€œHow should I react here, as a professional black person?â€ and â€œWill this white personâ€™s potato salad kill me?â€ are forever relevant.
What Doesnâ€™t Kill You Makes You Blacker chronicles Youngâ€™s efforts to survive while battling and making sense of the various neuroses his country has given him.
Itâ€™s a condition thatâ€™s sometimes stretched to absurd limits, provoking the angst that made him question if he was any good at the â€œbeing straightâ€ thing, as if his sexual orientation was something he could practice and get better at, like a crossover dribble move or knitting; creating the farce where, as a teen, he wished for a white person to call him a racial slur just so he could fight him and have a great story about it; and generating the surreality of watching gentrification transform his Pittsburgh neighborhood from predominantly black to â€œPortlandia...but with pierogies.â€
At its most devastating, it provides him reason to believe his mother would be alive today if she were white.
From one of our most respected cultural observers, What Doesnâ€™t Kill You Makes You Blacker is a hilarious and honest debut that is both a celebration of the idiosyncrasies and distinctions of blackness and a critique of white supremacy and how we define masculinity.